Thinking like an Aristocrat
Here is my stab at conveying this type of sensibility as I think it can be useful for people to consider. Take it or leave it. I’ll keep trying to get better!
I will start this post off with a quote from Thomas Jefferson, in a letter to John Adams: “I agree with you that there is a natural aristocracy among men. The grounds of this are virtue and talents. There is also an artificial aristocracy, founded on wealth and birth, without either virtue or talents; for with these it would belong to the first class.” (Jefferson to Adams, October 28, 1813)
This passage is part of a larger discussion on Jefferson’s belief that a true aristocracy should be based on merit and personal qualities, instead of inherited privilege. He goes on to argue that the best leaders are those who possess virtues and talents that benefit society, and themselves.
The essence of what I’m poking at in this post is how we might expand our innate or ‘natural aristocracy’ that Jefferson is referring to. It makes intuitive sense that some individuals could benefit from exploring the ideals associated with ‘thinking like an Aristocrat’. This may involve challenging our preconceived notions of elitism, merit, democratic ideas, our self-image, and psychological well-being. I believe, and the research suggests, that competence, that is, having an impact on and attaining valued outcomes, is a core psychological need. Aristocratic thinking gives us a sensibility and permission, to develop our skills and talents.
Let us jump in!
The Brave Choice of Aristocratic Thinking
In a world that frequently emphasizes equality and scoffs at elitism, the notion of aristocratic thinking often finds itself relegated to the margins, misunderstood, and dismissed as an antiquated way of living. Yet, I argue, that it is perfectly well and good to embrace a mindset that involves the pursuit of excellence and virtue. Especially in an era increasingly satisfied with mediocrity. It takes courage to delay gratification in favor of building longer-lasting progress and success. The aristocrat resists the impulsive, in favor of the thoughtful, and knows the true power of sacrificing their lower desires for higher ambitions.
The aristocrat isn’t afraid to stand out, insofar as excellence of character and mastery of skill are concerned. The shallow and primal desires take a back-seat to higher aspects of living.
The Essence of Aristocratic Thinking
Aristocratic thinking goes beyond social status or hereditary privilege. It is a philosophy rooted in the pursuit of excellence, and the cultivation of a ‘class act’, even noble character. This mode of thought is characterized by the relentless quest for personal and intellectual refinement, and the embodiment of virtues such as integrity, honor, and discipline. This includes setting standards for oneself that reach beyond the ordinary. Aristocratic thinking can be a remedy for those who struggle to aim high with their pursuits as it provides a sensibility- permission to treat themselves as somebody with dignity. With choices that reflect that.
The recognition of what truly matters for oneself, while filtering out the unhelpful, unnecessary cultural noise, is at the heart of the Aristocrat. When done correctly, a new sense of freedom is unlocked.
Imagine a person who, in the quiet moments, unburdened by the noise of the masses, engages in practices that elevate their mind and spirit—whether through studying classical literature, practicing a craft with meticulous care, reflecting on their moral compass, or aiding in a greater community good. This individual, though not necessarily of royal blood, epitomizes aristocratic thinking through their dedication to self-improvement and a higher standard of living for those most dearest to themselves.
Modern Dismissal
In contemporary society, where inclusivity and egalitarian principles are celebrated for better or for worse, aristocratic thinking can be dismissed as elitist or out of touch. The modern cultural milieu often equates equality with uniformity, where the pursuit of higher standards is viewed with suspicion. However, it is precisely this environment that calls for the courage to embrace the enduring ideals of an aristocrat.
Perhaps there is something we can learn from the Aristocrat who achieves excellence in character, skill, social relationships, and vocation. While many are quick to label such people as elitists, others look past the cluttering opinions of the majority and see a role model. And as an extension, an opportunity to create their own excellence.
Do you have people you look up to in your life? What makes them admirable?
Aristocratic thinking challenges the status quo as it currently stands, advocating for a life committed to higher purposes and long-term vision. It resists the allure of fleeting trends and the superficial appeal of mass culture. Choosing instead to focus on enduring values and personal growth.
Allegory of Virtue and Nobility
‘The Allegory of Virtue and Nobility’, by Giovanni Battista Tiepolo (Italian, 1696-1770) is an oil painting that helps to depict the symbolic ideas highlighted in this article. Here is the excerpt, taken from https://www.nortonsimon.org/art/detail/F.1972.26.P
‘In this monumental painting, Giovanni Battista Tiepolo depicts the triumph of Virtue and Nobility over the vice of Ignorance, all three personified by female figures. Nobility, wrapped in saffron- and rose-colored fabric, and winged Virtue, holding a crown of laurels, look down with disdain at the tumbling figure of Ignorance, who is cast into shadows by a furious cherub. To the left, Fame blows a trumpet to announce the victory. For the elite viewers for whom the work was created, intellectual interest in the allegorical subject matter was matched with delight at impressive illusionistic effect—one of Tiepolo’s characteristic talents.’
You can view the high-quality version of this painting here. I encourage you to zoom in on the details. Notice the use of shadows, light, and symbolism. https://www.nortonsimon.org/art/viewer/F.1972.26.P
What comes to mind when you view this painting?
The word ‘Noble’ is defined as having or showing fine personal qualities or high moral principles, ideals, and aspirations. The painting likely emphasizes the harmonious relationship between virtue and nobility, suggesting that true nobility is deeply connected to virtuous living. This conveys the idea that one needs both a sense of nobility and virtue to properly manage one's ignorance. In other words, nobility is achieved, and sustained, through virtuous living and the continual pruning of our ignorant blind spots.
Tapping into the Aristocratic Archetype
To truly understand and benefit from aristocratic thinking, one must be willing to integrate its principles into daily life. Here are some steps to guide this transformation:
Set High Standards: Ambitious goals for personal and professional growth are essential. Avoid the complacency of mediocrity; aim for excellence. It starts in your imagination and vision. Another way to say this is to treat yourself as somebody who has inherent dignity and worth.
Cultivate Virtues: Focus on developing noble virtues such as courage, honor, and perseverance. These qualities, among others, are the cornerstone of a noble character. Exercise a level of critical thinking and moderation with emerging cultural ideas. Practice challenging modern knowledge with ancient wisdom. Embodying virtues are an excellent way to improve our mental resilience, and decision-making.
Pursue Knowledge and Refinement: Engage in continuous learning and seek intellectual and cultural enrichment. Traveling, and engaging in the arts, literature, and history, are sure-fire ways to ensure an ongoing development of the mind. This could mean listening to new music, podcasts, or films that challenge and expand our understanding of the world, or engaging in skillful activities.
Form Friendships That Elevate: Establish a small but mighty group of friends. Learn to separate the ‘wheat from the chaff’ when it comes to your social sphere. Identify and nurture those friends who promote your well-being. Establish strong boundaries with those who are actively working against your vision, ambitions, and pursuit of excellence.
Practice Self-Discipline: Establish routines and habits that promote self-control and productivity. Our routines and habits must align with our virtues. Discipline is key to achieving and maintaining excellence. Discipline is important in our careers, our relationships, and when it comes to developing lifestyle habits.
Live with Purpose: Align your daily actions with a clear purpose and long-term vision. This focus on direction leads to deeper fulfillment and a more meaningful life. Living with purpose means aligning every action with a deeper meaning, ensuring that each step taken is a deliberate stride toward one's highest ideals and long-term goals.
The Benefits of Aristocratic Thinking
By embodying these principles, the benefits of aristocratic thinking become evident. A stronger sense of purpose, enhanced self-discipline, and greater resilience are just a few of the rewards. Those who embrace this mindset find themselves less swayed by superficial distractions and more anchored in what truly matters. In a society that prioritizes instant gratification and trivial stressors, I believe this offers a path to fulfillment and genuine personal development.
The choice to adopt aristocratic thinking is both brave and transformative. It involves striving for excellence, cultivating a noble character, and living with purpose, discipline, and honor. This unconventional path, though challenging, promises a life rich in meaning and true personal growth.
Questions to consider…
What does excellence mean to you, and how do you pursue it in your daily life?
How could practicing virtue improve your well-being and mental health?
How do you define a noble character, and what steps are you taking to embody this ideal? (If you struggle with this, think of a positive role model, and describe their traits)
Can you identify moments when you settled for mediocrity? What would striving for excellence have looked like in those situations?
What assumptions do you hold about elitism, and how might these assumptions prevent you from embracing higher aspirations for yourself?
In what ways can the principles of democracy and aristocracy complement each other in fostering a balanced and fulfilling life?
Are you daring enough to aim for your highest vision?